The Gift of Influence
March 16, 2007Chris Widener, President of Made for Success, has worked with numerous U.S. Presidential candidates, pro athletes, and CEOs over the years, teaching them how to become successful leaders that people will want to follow. His focus is on how leaders influence people to change their thinking, beliefs and actions; nothing that it’s not a corporate title that empowers a leader; it’s how well they can connect with people on an emotional level. Mr. Widener says, “When we lead, it is not something that we can just decide to start doing, it requires other people to decide whether or not they will follow.”
In this audio presentation, Mr. Widener expands upon two basic primacies that define great leaders: character and skill. In context, character refers to a person’s being, and skill refers to the ability and talent of that person. Mr. Widener emphasizes that character and skill are the two most important characteristics when leading with influence. Without one of these characteristics, you are either a great person who can’t add value to a company or problem, or you’re a talented individual whose unpopular and difficult personality limits your success.
At each seminar, Widener asks his audiences to write down the most important characteristics that they believe a leader must emulate. After collecting the audience’s responses, Widener writes them on a white board and asks the audience to define each characteristic that they have come up with as being either a character trait or a skill. The results are mind-boggling. Whether the seminar was full of CEOs or high school students, the audience defined almost 90% of the characteristics as character traits. If character is so important for becoming a successful leader, why do we spend so much time improving our skills? When was the last time you critiqued your character? Honestly and impartially?
Mr. Widener concludes this audio presentation with his advice for building character, and it is something any change agent should consider.
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